9 Surefire Signs That You Are Attractive (+ Bonus Tips)

Good-looking people are like magnets.

When someone is undeniably attractive, they are tempting in every way.

Attractiveness is a force that draws from all directions.

If you are attractive, you will be treated differently than everyone else because appearance is more important than most people think.

If someone finds you appealing to the eye, it should be obvious.

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People will let you know based on their behavior. Here are nine signs that you are absolutely alluring:

1. You get told that you have a nice smile.

If you genuinely smile more than others it appears that you enjoy life and that you are a confident person.

It’s not just your teeth and lips that look nice. It’s also your confidence that makes you attractive.

If you have confidence in yourself, you don’t need any reassurance from anyone about who you are.

Which makes you even more attractive.

2. People are always staring at you.

Don’t feel like you are wearing something weird or have food stuck in your teeth.

If you get checked out a lot it’s more than likely because you are beautiful.

People love beautiful things.

That’s why jewelry stores sell shiny rocks for the price of a new car.

"A thing of beauty is a joy forever."- John Keats

3. More than once, you’ve had someone act awkward around you.

This is a common problem that attractive people as yourself have.

There’s even a video on shynesssocialanxiety.com that discusses in detail how to not be awkward around attractive people.

It’s not your fault that you have an effect on people that makes them sweat profusely.

4. You can’t go out with your friends without getting hit on.

It’s really annoying.

You could be wearing your wedding band, or have a flashing sign above your head that says "leave me alone" and people would still gravitate towards you.

You can’t go out with your friends for a few beers or a glass of wine without being bothered. People have no shame.

5. You get lots and lots of direct messages, even if you’re in a relationship.

It’s the age of technology, and people don’t seem to have respect for relationships anymore.

Don’t be surprised if you get direct messages all of the time from people who are attracted to you.

It doesn’t matter if you have a wife and four kids.

Or if you are a recent widow.

People genuinely aren’t looking out for your emotional needs.

They are looking to meet their physical ones.

6. You get call or texts from unfamiliar numbers.

This is where you need to be careful. You may get calls or texts from people you don’t know, and they might be inappropriate or threatening.

Think about this; There have been instances in the past where a person's obsession with someone led them down a dark road. If you are an attractive person, you may have a stalker who is trying to reach you in any way that they can.

Don’t be surprised if someone likes you to the point that it’s creepy. This is called infatuation, not love. When someone is infatuated with another human being, they only care about their own desires and they may be dangerous.

If someone’s infatuation gets to this point, you may need to look up who is calling you for your safety.

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Reverse Phone Lookup

7. People are really nice or really mean to you.

Either people are jealous so therefore they are mean to you, or they are overly-nice because they want to be with you.

Don’t be surprised if eventually some of your friends may get jealous or hold resentment towards you.

Don’t take it personally or get mad because their self-esteem may be suffering.

Instead, try to compliment them more often, to make them confident as well.

8. You have an attractive partner.

Attractive people pair with attractive people.

That’s just how it works.

According to this study, even in simple social situations attractive people will naturally pair together.

This happens in marriage as well. For example, look at Brad Pitt.

He was married to Jennifer Aniston and then Angelina Jolie.

Two of the most beautiful looking women in Hollywood, and he’s a looker himself. People make sense of relationships based on appearance.

9. People will find any reason necessary to talk to you.

It could be about the weather.

Or they try to talk to you about something that they see you doing such as "Hey I see that you like cheese. What is your favorite kind?".

Most people like cheese. It’s not that interesting.

They are interested in talking to you, and they honestly don’t care what kind of cheese you like.


Well there you have it.

Nine apparent signs that point out how attractive you are.

A majority of people are really, really easy to read.